The loss of a loved one is one of the most traumatic experiences that any one will face. And to ease the load on those who have to make the arrangements for the memorial or committal service it is recommended that you make it clear how you would like to be memorialized whilst you are still alive. You can, therefore, decide if you prefer burials to cremations and vice versa.
The simple act of making your choice clear will help your loved ones focus on mourning your passing. They won’t then waste any time worrying about the arrangements for your funeral. They can then focus on remembering how you lived your life and what type of person you are now.
There have been many times that families are at odds with one another, because they disagreed on how their loved ones are remembered. In one family there may be a tradition where all close relations are buried at a particular cemetery and on a single burial plot. For another having your organs donated and your remains cremated is an accepted option.
If your preferences clash with your family traditions, then rather make it clear in writing or entrust your preference with your legal advisor or executor of your estate. In this way your decision counts and all other family disagreements are then avoided completely. You have also made it a whole lot easier for them to know what you want.
If you do not know what options are available, rather make time to chat to your loved ones and hear what they recommend. You could also see your spiritual leader for recommendations. Many people well in their years have chosen the music, written their eulogy and set out the program for their own funeral. You can too.
The whole idea is to make sure that you have covered all your bases, whilst you are still able to. There is no point waiting until you are on your death bed to make these kind of decisions, so use the time you have now to make a choice that you will be happy with. If you prefer burials to cremations, then make your choice in writing or with someone your trust to follow it. At the end of the day, it really is your choice.
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